Dreams

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Re: Dreams

Postby xyz on Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:44 am

I agree on the evil part, I'm dubious as to just how intelligent these evil NsFH are though, if they're so damn smart then why aren't they better off $$$$ wise & successful in general? The only thing they have on us is they've been doing crap like this longer than we could ever imagine, & they're obsessed about it. Maybe it's the only place in life where they're "successful". I tend to think of them like any other vermin though, they'll watch...& watch....& watch, then when there's an opportunity they'll scurry out like a rat, do their damage & scurry back to their nest. No cahones required.
*Apologies to rats, as they aren't destructive for the sake of being destructive.*
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Set under a black cloud...That hides the sun... "Broadsword", Jethro Tull
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Re: Dreams

Postby hadit on Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:34 pm

you nailed it! they're obsession in tormenting others doesn't even register on our radar. Why? because they're bored and it 's the only power trip they have going for them. Otherwise,they're antisocials in other relationships in life,we all just have the misfortune of living so close to them.
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Re: Dreams

Postby Bob on Tue Mar 09, 2010 9:43 pm

XYZ and Hadit, absotootly.
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Re: Dreams

Postby bob_o on Mon Apr 19, 2010 12:46 pm

Bob wrote:Perhaps it's the Neighbors From Hell who need a nature walk. Get them in touch, teach them to appreciate things they can't currently fathom.


Laugh, I somehow can't picture an NFH appreciating nature. What I can picture is a campsite full of drunks, ATV's and loud music until all hours.

FWIW, I took my family on a nature walk this weekend, ahhhh, the peace was deafening.
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Re: Dreams

Postby Bob on Mon Apr 19, 2010 10:41 pm

Not every bad neighbor fits that bill. Some fail to appreciate nice things due to lack of exposure to them.
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Re: Dreams

Postby bob_o on Tue Apr 20, 2010 6:44 pm

I thought I was getting my sense of humor back for a minute. :D
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Re: Dreams

Postby hadit on Tue Apr 20, 2010 7:49 pm

bob_o, a sense of humor is so important. Laugh,Laugh,Laugh, it's the best medicine. The sounds of childrens laughter is contagious. Don't change your life becasue of your NFH. They can't stand to see you happy. I'll bet if you ask their previous neighbors they did the same things to them. Live, stay in control of YOUR emotions and don't lt them get to you. Easier said then done, but necessary. Keep us posted.
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Re: Dreams

Postby 34garden on Tue Apr 20, 2010 10:24 pm

yeah, I never saw NFH even smile once, not in 17 years we have lived here. Let alone laugh. His kids do not smile or laugh when he is home. I have observed thatwWhen they are with their friends they are OK though. He just is a huge damper on everything... a killjoy even to his family I suspect.
I have noticed this serious defect with people I have met whom I suspect to be sociopaths - they have NO sense of humor. And when you make a joke, they take it the wrong way. Their wiring is definitely off.
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